tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6976244.post112860574504116095..comments2023-10-26T06:12:04.915-07:00Comments on Silent Eloquence: 54 and countingArunimahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08528153539195340782noreply@blogger.comBlogger20125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6976244.post-1129199309607307102005-10-13T03:28:00.000-07:002005-10-13T03:28:00.000-07:00if the number is 54, then there is something wrong...if the number is 54, then there is something wrong with the guy. (is he really a 'guy'???) I mean c'mmon, 54 girls refused to marry him!!! and the one who actually married him, eventually divorced him and corrected a mistake :)) <BR/><BR/>I am sure he'll have a century to his credit soon :DAmitKenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14199841381017371074noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6976244.post-1129143545526663852005-10-12T11:59:00.000-07:002005-10-12T11:59:00.000-07:00I actually sympathize with the guy. He must not be...I actually sympathize with the guy. He must not be ready at this time in his life to give it another chance. C'mon, he just got divorced for crying out loud.sinusoidallyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04394576952544662812noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6976244.post-1129090975563715252005-10-11T21:22:00.000-07:002005-10-11T21:22:00.000-07:00marriage is beautiful. only when you want it to be...marriage is beautiful. only when you want it to be. listen to your heart closely. it tells you who the right person is, when he walks your way. that's what my heart did. and i'm happy i heard its sqeaks of joy.Shobana Jayaraman Srikumarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06991521050068146201noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6976244.post-1129041130688641812005-10-11T07:32:00.000-07:002005-10-11T07:32:00.000-07:0054 girls .. oh my !!does he find a mention in Guin...54 girls .. oh my !!<BR/>does he find a mention in Guiness Book .. ok at least in Limca book?<BR/><BR/>Apart from being nice, is he 'seek perfection in everything' guy ?Invinciblehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17506567313081186877noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6976244.post-1129007883451835702005-10-10T22:18:00.000-07:002005-10-10T22:18:00.000-07:00Absolutely ridiculous!!! BTW did he celebrate when...Absolutely ridiculous!!! BTW did he celebrate when he completed half a century....Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6976244.post-1129005752997286102005-10-10T21:42:00.000-07:002005-10-10T21:42:00.000-07:00Hi,Arunima...yes,it's ridiculous..54 girls,is of c...Hi,Arunima...yes,it's ridiculous..54 girls,is of course,a bit too much.And,imagine the humiliation for the families of each of these girls and the girls themselves.It's high time that the system changed.In fact,I wouldn't be averse to the idea of girls going to see boys,someday in the future.Let both parties have an equal say,instead of a one-sided yes or no.AmitLhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01315443741450983388noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6976244.post-1129005285577541102005-10-10T21:34:00.000-07:002005-10-10T21:34:00.000-07:00Marriage is a beautiful-institution, I'm sure the ...Marriage is a beautiful-institution, I'm sure the guy who started this thing must a genius!!!!Stonehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16053118951693455094noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6976244.post-1128989639718849732005-10-10T17:13:00.000-07:002005-10-10T17:13:00.000-07:00i will marry the first one who agrees to marry me....i will marry the first one who agrees to marry me. i very strongly doubt tht such good things happen more than once.Ravi Handahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12193210203885051549noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6976244.post-1128960662183838722005-10-10T09:11:00.000-07:002005-10-10T09:11:00.000-07:00Besides everything, I do believe marriages are mad...Besides everything, I do believe marriages are made in heaven!!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6976244.post-1128946266354607502005-10-10T05:11:00.000-07:002005-10-10T05:11:00.000-07:00you search, you chase, you compromise, you demand....you search, you chase, you compromise, you demand..it never ever ends. love, marriage..it's so unpredictable. similarities? differences? there are no rules at all, nothing right or wrong anymore. i've loved a woman who's totally opposite to me, a woman who's a mirror-image to me...now, i've given up, i'll just wait. if 'it' happens i'll be blessed, if it doesn't, i'll leave everything and join a monastry one fine day. it's not a joke, this monastry thing has been a recurring thought for so long...i wonder if...zypsyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12806856248469785452noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6976244.post-1128946163934929172005-10-10T05:09:00.000-07:002005-10-10T05:09:00.000-07:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.zypsyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12806856248469785452noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6976244.post-1128935330873385102005-10-10T02:08:00.000-07:002005-10-10T02:08:00.000-07:00I wonder if there is category for world's pickiest...I wonder if there is category for world's pickiest groom or something like that in the Guinnes book...claytonia viceshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01700112193424567973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6976244.post-1128934941667560512005-10-10T02:02:00.000-07:002005-10-10T02:02:00.000-07:00lol May be more than Wife he may be interested in ...lol May be more than Wife he may be interested in Samosa, Kachori, Jalebi, Jamun.. All the stuff they serve while the guy make a Visit to Girl's place for Seeing formality..<BR/><BR/>In Case if he had accepted one among 54 then he would have missed all these Samosa, Kachori he he heRupa (BNB)https://www.blogger.com/profile/00065452057155554566noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6976244.post-1128927396085234842005-10-09T23:56:00.000-07:002005-10-09T23:56:00.000-07:00marriage is all about compromise like many people ...marriage is all about compromise like many people already said. You walk half your mile, i walk my half and meet somewhere midway. Otherwise, it would end up lik ethe saying,"all my life i was waiting for my perfect women but when I met her she was also looking for her perfect men". What guarantee that you will be the perfect person for your perfect person :-) <BR/>I had an ex who wanted me walk the whole mile coz she was, as she said," I have been like this all my life".How glad I am that she is an ex now.<BR/>And i believe compromise doesn't mean change. It should rather mean adjusting, because you can't change someone who has already lived more than 20 years. Try to Change at your own perilAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6976244.post-1128885683634946772005-10-09T12:21:00.000-07:002005-10-09T12:21:00.000-07:00let him see 2 more girls and then ur post title ca...let him see 2 more girls and then ur post title can be "Ab takk chhappan"!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6976244.post-1128851849311427172005-10-09T02:57:00.000-07:002005-10-09T02:57:00.000-07:0054 girls!unbelievable!54 girls!<BR/><BR/>unbelievable!Arun Gopalanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17788078749064582801noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6976244.post-1128842904455008372005-10-09T00:28:00.000-07:002005-10-09T00:28:00.000-07:00u cant expect to find a picture perfect better-hal...u cant expect to find a picture perfect better-half.. lowering ur expectations and compromises are musts in an arranged marriage (which is perhaps why arranged marriages in india work).. <BR/>as for this guy in particular, its better to leave him alone lest he sud make his life (and someone else's) a living hell.. perhaps he has a mind of his own no one has cared to delve into.. <BR/>hopefully, serendipity sud save him..hitchhikerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06048694737808609008noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6976244.post-1128842051284395952005-10-09T00:14:00.000-07:002005-10-09T00:14:00.000-07:00hahah I havent been able to blog too.. how are you...hahah I havent been able to blog too.. how are you doing <BR/><BR/>Marriage is a beautiful phase if you know how to handle it.. <BR/><BR/>PallaviAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6976244.post-1128829824152785722005-10-08T20:50:00.000-07:002005-10-08T20:50:00.000-07:00hi arunima,hey this seeing a girl thing... i hope ...hi arunima,<BR/>hey this seeing a girl thing... i hope i finish it in max 3 attempts...(when my time comes)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6976244.post-1128772937324537392005-10-08T05:02:00.000-07:002005-10-08T05:02:00.000-07:00Instead of looking for a perfect gal, he should ha...Instead of looking for a perfect gal, he should have looked for compatible gal. Nobody in this earth is perfect and its wrong to expect that. <BR/><BR/>A successful marriage has a compatibility factor between two.<BR/>Social and edu backgrounds are good measures of it. and hence indian marriages work most of the times.<BR/><BR/>There is always some compromise involved in successful marriage. and successful ppl rarely compromise. Guess its one reason for the divorce here.Anbuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06956671898553865757noreply@blogger.com